Consider the movie “13 going on 30”: As she experiences the life she thought she wanted, Jenna realizes that it’s not what she truly desires, and she longs to return to her younger self and make things right. This movie is a great reminder that sometimes what we think we want is not what we really need, and we should be careful what we wish for because we might get it. It’s essential to be aware of what truly matters to us and not let societal expectations or external influences cloud our judgment. Ultimately, we are the masters of our world, and our perceptions and worldviews are in our hands.
BUT FIRST – THE FOUNTAIN.
Oftentimes, due to our circumstances and the influence of societal structures, we tend to think that what we have in front of us is what we truly want. This is exemplified in the movie “13 going on 30,” where Jenna wishes to be thirty and thrive at all costs, leaving behind her true desires for her best friend and true love, Matt. Thus, becoming blind to the blessings all around us.
Consider the tarot card “Four of Cups” in the Rider-Waite deck as an example. It shows a person sitting with three cups on the side and a fourth being offered to him/her, but they are not looking at it. This card indicates the importance of being present and mindful of the opportunities and blessings available in the present moment.
Why? Because this person has an expectation that blinds him/her to see beyond their narrow perception. Be present with curiosity and wonder in the here and now.
Starting with this first is crucial because you are truly the master of your life, but to make the best decision in alignment with your true being, you need to be aware of what your soul wants, not ego(s).
You may not have all those pieces of the puzzle laid out, and that’s okay. Have faith that you are making the right decisions every step of the way. Trust your intuition and inner guidance, and act toward what feels right to you. Remember that every step you take is leading you toward where you need to be, and it’s all part of the journey.
Remember that the power resides in you, in your thoughts along the way. You are the one making choices, and you are the one making decisions. But it is also important to question whether those decisions are truly your own (creation of thoughts) or if they are someone else?
This is where you sit with yourself and ask your soul self: not your ego self, which has been tainted by societal and superficial ways of thinking about the life around you, indicating how it ‘should be’ and how it ‘should not be.’
SPIRITUALLY AND EMOTIONALLY GROUNDED. ALLOW THE WATER OF THE FOUNTAIN TO FLOW EASILY.
Once the above has been addressed, ensure that you are centered and grounded with yourself in the here and now.
Your authentic self is creating through imagination. It is being created through your constant thoughts.
It is like when you practice piano or any sport. You practice and practice until you get better. The more you do, the more you will master it. The more you imagine that and fully embrace it, the more you see it manifest in your physical world.
CHECK IN. ANY HESITATIONS? INTERRUPTIONS OF FLOWS; OF LEVITY?
The world around us is amazing in its own ways. There are many parallels between nature, human nature, and the relationships we built that can tell us a lot about other areas of life, other people’s habits, and seeing all the connections with the spiritual life.
And there are miracles as well. Miracles that seem impossible but are possible. Cliché but as long as you believe it, truly believe it with your true essence, all is possible.
It is crucial to check in with yourself every so often. You define that timeline of how often you want to check in with yourself.
Sit with yourself.
Consult with yourself. Consult with your guardian angels, spirit guides, and the universe (or “God”).
Whatever that may be for you, allow it to fit your current level of evolvement and continue to allow yourself to push your mindset further. To further stretch your perceptions that you have been passed down or continue to take on from those surrounding you or what you allow yourself to see in your surroundings.
EMBRACE CHANGE. ALLOW THE DIFFERENT AVENUES OF WATER TO FLOW IN YOUR FOUNTAIN.
As you go through each cycle or rollercoaster ride in life – make sure to have fun along the way. Have fun! And when it’s time to let go of something or someone, embrace the change and have faith that it will lead you to new and exciting opportunities. Life is full of twists and turns, it’s really up to you how you respond to it and what you make out of it.
Plans will change, and things will turn out the way you did not expect but always for the better. Believe it is for the better. Things that you still can’t see because you only have a few puzzles available.
Don’t hold on to what needs to be let go so you can venture into your new embodied world(s).
And there will be times when you will have to stick with it for a little longer because there is a lesson to capture before you move on to the next stage: the next rollercoaster! Break the cycle!
FINAL THOUGHTS.
It is easier said than done. Awareness can only take you so far. It is by taking the necessary and consistent steps to move on to the next adventure and scope of experiences.
What stage are you in your roller-coaster? And what steps do you need to take in order to move on to the next stage?
With Love,
Sinay Scarr
